AMACURU FROM RWANDA

Hanky Panky CEO Lida Orzeck with Dr. Christian, Head of Kibagabaga Hospital.

Hanky Panky CEO Lida Orzeck with Dr. Christian, Head of Kibagabaga Hospital.

I am in Kigali, Rwanda with the International Organization for Women’s Development, a medical humanitarian organization that travels thrice yearly to this country to address a problem that affects women in many parts of the world—obstetric fistula. Women with this condition are perennially incontinent and become outcasts from their families and communities.

Kibagabaga Hospital Courtyard

Kibagabaga Hospital Courtyard

A Kibagabaga Ambulance

A Kibagabaga Ambulance

Saturday is the first day at Kibagabaga Hospital. I join local physician Dr. Tarsi and IOWD doctors Stacy and Cece on maternity rounds: maternity ward, post-op, delivery room. I choose not to go into the OR where a laboring woman is rushed for a C-section after several hours of pushing. (In the end, her baby dies as a result of her ruptured uterus).

A few of the IOWD docs as well as the Rwandan medical Residents and students who work with IOWD.

A few of the IOWD doctors, as well as the Rwandan medical residents and students who work with IOWD.

I’m struck by the quiet in this part of the hospital which, in the US, would be filled with wailing babies. Not a sound. The mothers are subdued, speak quietly, respond with slight head nods and barely audible answers to the queries of Dr. Tarsis. The babies are responding to their mothers’ calm.

Kibagabaga Hospital

Kibagabaga Hospital

The hospital is a lovely one-story building that surrounds a verdant courtyard, but the accommodations are ghastly. The mattresses are cracked and shredded and patients must bring their own bedding. There is no kitchen, so families must provide food, not always possible depending on the circumstances of a person’s confinement. The wheelchairs are hybrid affairs concocted from bicycle tires and plastic outdoor furniture. There are no stretchers or gurneys—patients routinely walk into the operating room, often naked. Post-op has no monitoring equipment. Bandages that cover C section incisions stay in place for at least 6 days, (whereas they would be removed after one day in the US) due to the stark differences in access to hygiene in this part of the world—wounds need extra protection. The supply cabinets are practically empty.

Wheelchair

Wheelchair

Ill-equipped supply cabinet in Kibagabaga Hospital.

Ill-equipped supply cabinet in Kibagabaga Hospital.

IOWD brings crates of donated supplies but modern equipment is expensive and needs regular maintenance. IOWD’s stays are 2 weeks long and equipment breaks down between visits or disappears.

Barbara Margolies, The Executive Director of IOWD

Barbara Margolies, The Executive Director of IOWD

Although the American group of about 28 medical personnel attends to all gynecological issues and has even treated injuries resulting from genocidal violence, the main focus is obstetric fistula. Sadly, because of recent government indifference, the usual swarm of women waiting to be evaluated by the IOWD staff has not appeared. On other missions 300 women might be waiting for triage. This time, only 30 women are present when we show up at 8 am. The Executive Director of IOWD , Barbara Margolies, is furious and successfully schedules a meeting that afternoon with the Minister of Health (have I mentioned that Barbara is a true force of nature?) who reverses government inaction and promises to announce the presence of IOWD over national radio. It’s not assured, however, how much impact that will have in a short period of time for women who must plan and pay for a trip to the capital city.

A local mother takes her baby for a walk.

A local mother takes her baby for a walk.

Barbara also invites Landredet, a member of the Rwandan parliament to visit the hospital this afternoon and by the time she leaves, Landredet has agreed to set up a meeting so that Barbara can address the women’s forum of the parliament to explain why it is so important to train local surgeons in the correct way to not only repair fistula but to also prevent fistula by practicing proper technique when performing C-sections.

Josiane, a fistula patient who will be doing educational work in the field for IOWD--a paid position.

Josiane, a fistula patient who will be doing educational work in the field for IOWD—a paid position.

MULABEHO for now.

-Lida

 

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A day in the life of the West Coast Hanky Panky representative.

 

California

California

It started out like any other day on the road—cruising through Santa Monica to visit a few of my favorite specialty store accounts. I first stopped by Fred Segal, Rocks & Silk to present our new Summer Collection. This extension to the classic Fred Segal “world’s first jean store” houses jewelry,  bags, accessories, silky pj’s, swimsuits, and undies—including the famous Hanky Panky. The buyers were extremely receptive to the new color palette and fashionable prints for the Summer season, and were eager to get them in the store as soon as possible!

Fred Segal Silk

Fred Segal Silk

After that, I hopped into my car and rushed off to visit my next account, The Rare Earth, a two and a half hour drive away to the beautiful beach town, Del Mar. It was another typical appointment, where I was scheduled to meet with the buyer to present our newest collection and answer any Hanky Panky related questions.

The store was absolutely packed and my buyer was pulled onto the floor to help with sales…however I did not mind the wait. This gave me the opportunity to do a little market research by listening to customers.

While walking around the store, I spotted an older woman staring longingly at a beautiful silk dress while her daughter was in the fitting room. After some convincing, the sales girl finally got her to try on the dress and when she came out one thing immediately came to my mind—holy VPL! While the form fitting dress was stunning on, her visible cotton bikini panty lines were ruining the entire look.

Hanky Panky sales rep to the rescue!

The women had obviously never heard of a thong, so I handed her an original rise buttercup Hanky Panky thong to try on (as to not scare her with a neon purple or leopard panty). Needless to say, she had an undergarment revelation.

It is not often that you meet a woman in Southern California that has never heard of a thong, but I felt accomplished after converting yet another woman into a Hanky Panky lover.

Another successful day as a Hanky Panky Sales Rep!

–Valerie

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2 Days in Amsterdam

Bicycles, cold, red light, concentric canals lined by stately but narrow buildings, Anne Frank puts us into rainy mood in rainy weather—bikes—look out!—shop, coffee, bikes and more coffee. Rijkmuseum and dreamy Vermeers, walk, walk, walk, poffertjes (also dreamy), where have all the tulips gone? To export, apparently; hailed same taxi driver TWICE (note to self: play lottery), go to airport—to Rwanda!—I like Amsterdam.

-Lida

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Mother’s Guilt Turns to Yankees Pride!

We are a “baseball family”.  My husband was a pitcher in college so pretty much my 8 year old son, Evan, has been groomed to be a ball player since birth!  When our 6 year old daughter, Shayna, decided to do T-ball this year, she said “of course I want to play, I don’t want to be left out!”

Shayna is on the Yankees and the team had their first game this past Saturday. Decked out with a pink glove, a pink bat, and pink cleats—what she calls her “costume”—she surely showed the boys on the team what girl power is all about!

This upcoming Saturday is the baseball parade and both of my children will be marching with their teams. Unfortunately I can’t be with them that day—I previously committed to hosting a Hanky Panky Crystalization event at the Nordstrom in Short Hills, NJ this Saturday (4/21) and the store has been super busy booking their customers’ pre-orders!

Of course I’m racked with guilt that I’m going to miss the parade, so I volunteered to make her team’s banner. Instead of enjoying the gorgeous weather over the weekend, I was feverishly painting in my dining room!

Go Yankees!

Go Yankees!

I must say, the banner came out fantastic! Even though I can’t physically be with the kids at the parade, I’ll definitely be marching with them in spirit!

Go Yankees!

Come see me at the Short Hills Nordstrom this Saturday 4/21 in the lingerie department. Say something funny or surprise your honey…with any Hanky Panky purchase, customize your panties!

-Ila

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Film Review: Bully

This weekend, I went to see Bully, the newly released documentary produced and directed by Lee Hirsch. I’ve been anxiously waiting for this film to open, as it focuses on a topic very important to me.  Bully sheds light on bullying in today’s schools, the difficulty parents face in protecting their own children, and the often dismissive attitude many school administrators take toward the issue. It focuses on five specific situations throughout the 2009/2010 school year, following not only the kids but also their parents as they battle with school administrators, counselors, and police just to try and ensure their children’s safety at school.

I saw Bully with my boyfriend Dan, an art teacher in a New Jersey middle school. I knew I would have a strong emotional response to the film. Put simply, it’s not for the faint of heart. It forces the viewer to confront the reality of what is actually going on in schools today. The cruelty of children, the ignorance of their teachers, and the parents’ inability to communicate or to affect real change are all placed in plain sight. Dan, who basically came along because I asked him to, was surprisingly moved by the film, and by one child’s story in particular. He was so troubled by the storyline of a 12-year-old boy named Alex that when we arrived home he started researching ways to help create change.

The film’s website, www.thebullyproject.com, offers viewing guides as well as guides for parents, teachers, students, and advocates. At 2AM, Dan was reading all of them. I have never seen him react so strongly to something he saw on TV or in a movie. This week, he is planning to reach out to the administration in his district and arrange a showing of the film for all the teachers in his district. He already works a lot of anti-bullying exercises into his curriculum, but he is going to work with the website’s guides to add more.

A partner website, www.facinghistory.org, offers many resources for teachers and students looking to stand up for human rights. Dan is planning to integrate some projects from there into his lesson plans as well.

The unrated version of Bully is currently showing in a few theaters in New York City and Los Angeles due to some graphic language and content, but if you can, I recommend getting out to see it. It provides an incredibly eye-opening view to a growing issue in schools. I applaud the filmmakers for bringing the issue to the forefront and for no longer allowing so many school administrators to continue to turn a blind eye as their students are being brutally tormented. An edited, rated PG-13 version was released this past weekend, and is showing in a few more cities.

-Lindsay

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New Job, New Thong

Hanky Panky Summer 2012

Hanky Panky Summer 2012

Thongs, v-kinis,  and boyshorts, oh my!

Who knew there were so many different kinds of undies? Not I, for one—but boy am I glad there are so many choices! Not only to try myself, but so much to learn about! I am new to the lingerie world, so this is an amazing experience for me.  It’s been a week here at my new job as an Account Executive at Hanky Panky and I am so happy to be a part of an amazing team and to have the opportunity to learn about something I love—THONGS!

Let me tell you, I have been an avid Hanky Panky fan for quite some time now, often purchasing the 4911 low rise thong in a plethora of colors, so it is triple exciting to be exposed to all these new kinds of undergarments by my favorite lingerie brand. In addition, I am getting married later this year, so you can imagine my excitement over Hanky Panky’s amazing bridal line—It’s like being a kid in a candy store!

Like I said, I never knew there were so many different choices! Take the retro thong; I never knew this little lady existed. Basically, it is a thong but with a great, thick extra-wide waistband made of our amazing lace. It is FABULOUS for under dresses or a pencil skirt, as it smooths out any unwanted lumps or bumps. Plus, it’s super sexy!

Hanky Panky's Leopard Nouveau Retro Thong

Hanky Panky's Leopard Nouveau Retro Thong

On my first day here at Hanky Panky, my boss gave me a few pieces to try, including the retro thong. I brought all my new goodies home and showed my fiancé. Upon first glance he was not a fan of the retro thong, but boy did he change his opinion once I put this gem on. He was blown away by how sexy a high-waist panty could be.

So ladies, go out and explore your options. Try new things. Whether it is in life or your undergarments, you never know what great thing or thong is waiting for you!

–Lindsey G.

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Thong Diary: A Hanky Panky Girl

Once a year, Randi, our 16 year old daughter, Amanda, and I get rid of our previous year’s bras and make the adventure to Nordstrom to purchase new ones. As you know, it’s all about the right foundation, and you have to keep those girls up there! My regular salesperson in the lingerie department had called a couple of months earlier to tell me she moved to Arizona, and if I was ever in the area, please stop by. Me? In Phoenix? Not all that likely, but I politely told her that I would stop in.

Having a trusted salesperson leave after a committed relationship of years is troublesome. Who is going to fit the family now? It’s like losing a hairstylist. Well, we were out for lunch and decided to take the chance and stop by. We were greeted by a lovely older woman with a kind smile and a desire to help. I told her the story of my former fitter, and she promised to take excellent care of us. Our boobs were in good hands…so to speak.

Upon realizing that all three of us required her services, I sure she had to pull from her inner strength as she pulled about a hundred bras. We had every color and shape imaginable…it was an explosion of lace and spandex. Racer-back, convertible, strapless, traditional…red, black, white, hot pink, nude…bows, no-bows, prints, solids…D/DD, C, B…we got them all. Well, not all, but seven or so each.

Having hit the mother lode on a quiet Sunday, the sly salesperson began to offer matching panties. I said, “No.” She persisted in pulling them and asking all the sale-closing questions. I again said, “No.” She continued in her attempts to sway my negative resolve. Suddenly, she got the biggest smile on her face and said, “Ah, you’re a Hanky Panky girl, aren’t you?” I couldn’t help but laugh and ask her to point the way to the profusion of colors…that were by chance on sale. What more could I have asked for?

Yes, I am a Hanky Panky girl.

Much love and respect,

Mary

Do you have a Hanky Panky story you’d like to share? Submit it to thongdiary@hankypanky.com. If it is featured in the diary, we will send you a complimentary gift!

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A Trip to MoMA PS1

I am a born New Yorker and in true New York style, I’m always searching for something interesting and new to see and do. One of the great things about living in New York is there’s always something new to explore, even if you think you’ve seen it all.

I recently moved to Brooklyn after living in Manhattan for 4 years. This has unearthed a whole new borough of things to experience, and my branching out has made me more adventurous when it comes to exploring the OTHER boroughs (gulp). On a recent sunny Saturday, I decided to venture out to Long Island City in Queens to visit one of these places I had never been: PS 1.

PS 1 is a branch of the MoMA that happens to be in a gorgeous, renovated school building. Each “classroom” houses a different exhibition of contemporary art from all over the world. Even the hallways and staircases are pieces of art, if you look closely. Cracks in the walls and the floor are hiding some pretty cool things—don’t blink or you’ll miss them!

Janet Cardiff: The Forty Part Motet.  2001. © MoMA PS1 www.momaps1.org

Janet Cardiff: The Forty Part Motet. 2001. © MoMA PS1 www.momaps1.org

A few of the exhibits in particular stood out to me. The Forty Part Motet by Janet Cardiff blew me away. You enter a room that is much bigger than most with high ceilings and are surrounded by forty single speakers on their own stands. You are surrounded by the sounds of a choir singing this beautiful piece of music, but when you start to walk the perimeter of the room, you realize that each one of the speakers represents a single person’s voice in the choir. Brilliant. You can really appreciate the fact that all of these single voices make this gorgeous sound. Sitting in the middle of the circle of speakers is like the ultimate surround sound. It gave me chills.

James Turrell. Meeting. 1986. Photograph by Michael Moran. www.momaps1.org

James Turrell. Meeting. 1986. Photograph by Michael Moran. © MoMA PS1 www.momaps1.org

Another great exhibit was called Meeting by James Turrell, which I learned has been at PS1 since 1986. It’s a small room with benches around the perimeter and a rectangle cut out of the ceiling, so that you can look up and see the sky. There are orange lights placed around the room, which complement the blue of the sky and make the color so intense that it’s hard to look at. I was fortunate enough to visit the museum on a beautiful day, so I could really experience this room the way it was meant to be experienced. This exhibit is only open if the weather is nice.

Installation views of Surasi Kusolwong at MoMA PS1, 2011. © MoMA PS1, 2011; Photo: Matthew Septimus.

Installation views of Surasi Kusolwong at MoMA PS1, 2011. © MoMA PS1, 2011; Photo: Matthew Septimus. www.momaps1.org

Last but not least, there was Golden Ghost (The Future Belongs To Ghosts) by Surasi Kusolwong. I saw this room when I first walked in, and I walked right by because there were tons of children playing in it, and I wasn’t sure what it was about. On second glance, I realized just how cool this installation was. It’s a big space with colorful, tangled fabric shreds piled high and covering the floor (now you can understand why there were so many children). Hidden within these shreds of fabric are gold necklaces and if you are lucky enough to find one, you are welcome to keep it. The installation is a metaphor for finding something worthwhile and special in a world of excess. I unfortunately did not go home with a necklace but I was wowed by the interactive exhibit, I highly recommend visiting it.

If you are in the area or looking for something interesting and different to do, definitely make the trek over to Long Island City and spend some time at PS1, you’ll be glad you did.

–Carrie

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Hanky Panky at the CAMEX Trade Show

A few weeks ago, Hanky Panky headed out to Salt Lake City for the annual CAMEX trade show (Campus Market Expo) to showcase our collegiate product and learn about this exciting new market for us.
We met a TON of people including some of our booth neighbors, of whom you’ll find some fun pictures below:

Check out me modeling the Texas A & M cami with a Ralph Lauren grey pinstripe flannel blazer and Burberry textured kilt with my new friend!

–Melissa S.

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The Ultimate Feline Fatale

Feline Fatale

Our new Feline Fatale styles are sure to make you Purr when you take style inspiration from the original Bad Kitty: Catwoman!

Start out with a leopard-print manicure like this one from East London nail salon Wah Nails. Note: You might want to put out a saucer of milk in case you get parched while you’re waiting for your nails to dry.

Next, you’ll need some Cat Eye Makeup. Try this tutorial from Makeup for Life for a Meow that Wows!

It’s almost a shame to cover up the great work you did on your makeup, but go ahead and top it all off with a leather mask like this one from Etsy. With our new Feline Fatale print and these style tips, you will really be ready for the Catwalk!

–Emily T.

 

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